Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Need Advice. i love my family and all, but we're total opposites. we fight everyday no matter what.i leave the

house, we're fighting, i come home we;re fighting.i can be sitting in my room doing my own thing, and they'll come yelling at me for no reason? theres always something wrong. lately my parents arent talking to me cause i went to a party and was drinking and they drink every day. my dads drunk every night. ive been grounded most of the summer already for no reason. my brother does nothing and he gets everything. my sister is just as spoiled as my brother, i seriously cant do anything. i know families have their problems, but its insane when i dont do anything and get yelled at for no reason and my siblings are spoiled. im 17, and i want to move out. my friend has a place not far from where i live and she has room for me if i want it. all ill have to do is pay rent. i work everyday. i have a full time job and a part time job and i work more then im at home, cause i cant do it anymore. i love my family, but this is constant. i dont want them mad at me but i dont wnat to be miserable. helpNeed Advice. i love my family and all, but we're total opposites. we fight everyday no matter what.i leave the
Maybe you should consider first the following:


1. Are you their legitimate child?


2. Do you share your income with them?


3. Do you do some home chores or you just stay in your room?


4. Do you talk to them?


If all your answer to the above question is no, maybe you should consider changing your attitude. If yes, go for the time being and see their reaction if you are not living with them. Living out doesn't mean you are ignoring them. It is just to test them if they'll miss you.Need Advice. i love my family and all, but we're total opposites. we fight everyday no matter what.i leave the
Sit them down and talk with them. You shouldn't drink just because your dad does it everyday. You shouldn't rebel like that.





Anyway, if you can't stand living with your parents anymore and you feel you are being punished for no reason you should move out. If you can help pay the rent and be a good roommate then go for it and move out.
Leave home kid!!! you are an adult and if you can make it on your own then go for it. It's maddening to listen to that all the time.And if your family doesn't understand then so be it. You can still love your family w/o living at home.
Sounds like you have already made up your mind to move out. 2 jobs will make rent money for you. But first before you make a hasty decision have you tried talking to your parents.? If I'm always getting scolded for things that I know I did not do I would ask why.
I would move out then if you can live with your friend and make it financially. Do whats best for you.

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