Need advice with my husbands family what to do ?

I need advice from a non family member.My husband was married to a women for twelve years had three children with him,they got divorced and me and him got together and have been married for 4 years,is family had is ex wife over for the holidays so we didnt go plus i dont believe we were invited,the kids from his previos marriage got mad hasnt been over in like a year,they were mean and nasty to me so that didnt help matters any his family i mean,now is ex is with someone else so she doesnt come over well now is sister his writing me telling me I need to grow and that we need to make this family work,what do I do I have is two children now am I overreacting to think that now I can be a part of the family,or do I need to suck it up a killin with kindness kinda thing,my the way I am 26 he is 39 I want real advice please.Need advice with my husbands family what to do ?
I would tell his family anything to do with his ex wife or children from his first marriage they need to talk to your hubby. I would let them know it's not your place. Let him deal with his family.Need advice with my husbands family what to do ?
You don't have to see or speak to his ex. That's his problem because he is the one with kids from another marriage. Let him deal with it, even if he evades situations, don't think you have to pick up his pieces. Concentrate on your marriage and time with him. If his kids don't like you, well, yah, a killin with kindness kinda thing. They're kids and are going through a hard time.
tell him how u feel....

















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they may feel this way, because of the age thing. name calling doesn't help anything, She was a part of the family, sucking up isn't part of growing up. It is what it is..being part of the family. This wouldn't be easy for anyone. Let them know you didn't want any uneasy tension during the holidays. They may feel you are the reason he didn't


show. besides, it's his family, and he needs to set everything straight. Four years is still short, to join a family. get to know them, and move past the EX...It isn't the easiest thing to do..but it can be done.