Christian Family: I'm in need of advice and fast?

Girlfriend~Rachel





Other Girl~ Bethany





See Bethany was a christian and now feels as though God doesn't hear her when she prays and is slowly giving up. I have been where she is and want to help. But here is the thing if i do then Rachel is going to be mad. See Bethany likes me and Rachel is afraid that something will happen. I love Rachel with all my heart, but feel the need to reach out...





I have prayed and feel the need to reach out anyway... do you think i am right to risk the love of my life?Christian Family: I'm in need of advice and fast?
As Christians, we are supposed to reach out and give comfort and help to our fellow christians.


This is a tricky situation, because Rachel might feel you might cheat on her.





If Rachel is a christian as well, ask her to go with you and the two of you go talk to Bethany. If she balks, remind her of the verse. ';Where two or more are gathered in my name, there I am.'; If she still won't go, then you can gently rebuke her and remind her what a Christian is and how they help other people.





I have the feeling that if Rachel goes with you, and sees that nothing will happen, she'll offer some help too.Christian Family: I'm in need of advice and fast?
If your girlfriend really loves you, then yes, she'll understand. Tell her why you feel you need to. Of course she'll be nervous, but just don't do anything with Bethany. Promise her you won't.
do what ever you have to do to keep another person from burning in hell for eternity your girlfriend should understand and besides life is temporary as long as you make it to heaven and save as many others as you can thats all that matters. The other things should come second.
so let me get this straight....You are the only person who can help this lost little lamb....hmmmm.....So you're the only Christian..........hhhmmmmmmm......that'鈥?a tough one.....try telling your girlfriend one more time....... she slowly give up......wow..hhmmmm tough one.......and your sure your not a player right.....hhhmmmm I gonna need more time I'll get back to you,,,,,,,,,,

















OK SO I AM BACK......SO seriously.....YOU have prayed and feel the need to reach out ANYWAY hhhmmmmm....SO YOU HAVE PRAYED ABOUT IT AND YOU WANT TO HELP HER ANNNNYYYWWWWAAYYYYS......








SO YOU PRAYED ABOUT BUT YOU WANT TO DO IT ANYWAY














why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say?


Luke 6:46





is go for it want you'd like to hear
If she is really the love of your life, and you are positive that nothing fishy is going to happen, and she has no reason to think you'd cheat on her, then she should understand. You are just trying to help someone. Perhaps you can convince Rachel to HELP you instead of going it solo and looking like you're up to something. That is what I would do.
Your girlfriend should take into consideration that you are merly trying to help a friend in need. Its not like your cheating on your girlfriend. If she thinks this, there must be a reason she is so insecure. Have you cheated on her before or given her reason to? Also, do you flirt with this girl and sometimes us guys flirt when we dont even know were doing it. Taking that into consideration, first sit your girlfriend down and explain what your doing and why your doing it, listen to her reaction and please dont interrupt her when shes talking.
Ask Rachel to be there to support you in this endeavor to help Bethany.
I don't.
no be careful...see if gf has a guy for Bethany....let her always be there when you talk to Bethany...
If your gf would leave you for trying to 'help' someone, and if she doesn't trust you enough to know you're not going to cheat on her, then she isn't the 'love of your life', she's just another immature, insecure adolescent. Talk to her like an adult. Explain things. If she STILL can't deal with it, you need to ask yourself how substantial this relationship really is.
Male/Female interactions always have potential for misinterpretation. If Bethany needs help, you do need to help her but you also need to be very careful.





You might have the purest intentions, but you already know that Bethany likes you, and you are going to be talking about a very intimate topic, God, so there is a huge potential here to inadvertantly lead her on. You might do all you can to avoid it, and she might still misread the situation in her vulnerable emotional state right now and try something foolish like asking you out. Then she'll feel like a fool when you reject her and she'll be even more hurt and confused when the person helping her rejects her.





So, and I can't emphasize this enough, you can't just be with her one on one. That is asking for trouble.





My suggestion - either try to see her with other people, or try to get someone else to help her, probably preferably female.





May God be with you all, and particularly Bethany.
then why don't you and Rachel help her out together?
Is Rachel a Christian? If so, ask her to help Bethany. That way, you won't have any contact with her, and it will be a good barometer on your girlfriend's attitude. If Rachel isn't saved, well, do what you believe is wisest.
You my friend,are called a playa.
Is Rachel a christian? If so she should understand. I agree with the other answers you should involve her in what you are going to do. Pray some more. Good luck.
If you feel you need to reach out do so regardlesss of the possible consequences. You must be willing to give up anything and everything to serve the Lord Jesus. Jesus said if you love land, your parents, your children, wife, anything more than him you are unwothrthy of him. Just be careful so that Bethany dosnt get hurt afterwards.
LOL! I think Rachel sees right through you. Reach out... indeed!
The love of your life is God and Jesus. Explain to Rachel that you have no interest in Bethany.


';Love is never Jealous';. And if Rachel truly loves you she will trust you!


Good Luck and God Bless!
you dont say whether or not the girls get along. if so, take your girlfriend with you. if she is religious, maybe she can help. if she isn`t maybe she will hear something she needs to.
involve rachel