an African-American girl but i am not that much into them. i am afraid if my dad finds out i am going out with an Asian girl he is going to freak out.Ok i took everybodys advice and asked the freshman out but she is asian and my family wants me to go out with?
THIS IS UP TO YOU.YOU CAN NOT PLEAE EVERY ONE.Ok i took everybodys advice and asked the freshman out but she is asian and my family wants me to go out with?
Here is the question that I have for you. If you are also African American why would you not be into your own women?
Your Mother, Grandmother, Aunts, Sisters, Cousins are all African -American. If you love and hounour all of these important women in your family then it is correct to assume that you would want to find a women that immulates the wonderful and strong qualitites of some of the women in your family, or has specific wonderful qualities that she brings from her own life experiences.
Think of things like this also. What if no one was not really into your Mom. Then how would you have come into exsistence.
What about your sisters or the other women in your life that you love. What if there was no one out there that was into them that much. What would their lives be like?
Here is also some food for thought. It takes a real man, of any Ethnicity to deal with a Strong, educated, willful, dominating, respectful, African-American woman. You definetly have to know who you are as a man to deal with strong women.
Many times African-American men go to women of other ethnicites becasue they don't have to work as hard, or come correct to the female or her family, so that is why they intentially choose white women, Asian women which are so much more passive compared to African-American Women.
I would say that you need to examine your intentions. Are you trying to date this Asian Girl just becasue it is the easy way out?
My last words in parting, African-American women are some of the most beautiful women on this planet. We are not only physically beautiful with the best facial features, Best bodies ( Lips,Chest, hips, Butt, thighs), but we are also strong, independent, Intelligent, resillient, confident, Funny, good common sense, and a myriad of other great personal qualities.
I suggest that every man who is strong enough experience being with an African-American Woman once in his lifetime. Once you get the right one, you will never want anything less.
I know this probably isn't the point in your life/relationship where you'd be thinking about this, but...
Your family is your family, and they'll always be your family no matter what you choose, however, whoever you date could be a potential spouse, and the person you could end up living with.
Once you're married, you don't live with your parents and don't have to follow their rules.
When it comes to relationships, go with what YOU want, not your parents, because they won't be able to decide who you marry. Unless you live in a place where arranged marriage is common...
But I hope you understand what I'm trying to say.
let your parents know that they are displaying racist attributes. ask them to get to know your choice of girlfriend first, before they judge her. your parents should know better than to judge somebody based on skin colour. stand firm - dont let their opinions rub off on you.
well if that was me i would tell him to get over it and that im not going to live my life miserable with the wrong person because they want me to be with a certain person. this isnt the olden days
you know your relationships are not really for your parents to decide. its probly best if you tell your parents right now. just be frank and sincere and honest with them im sure your parents will understand only want you to be happy.
just tell dad she is very very tight down below...he will understand
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