Help my mums bf is breaking our family up...very depressed need advice pls?

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My mum has been going out with a guy who is 15 yrs younger then her for 3 years..i have never much liked him, i think that he is very obsessive towards her always ringing to see where she is and she has to ring him to him the same...Just saturday night he came in and wrecked my sisters bday party by giving death threats to her friends and throwing beer bottles at there cars..so then of course i couldnt contain my anger and told him exactly what i thought of him....he never tries to physically harm anyone but is always verbally harming my mum or us kids...but she doesnt see it like that at all..he abuses alcohol, drinks about 3 cartons a week, which is about 90 stubbies...mum is now kicking me and my son out of the house, we have two weeks..i cant believe she is doing this, it is not her anymore, she would never do this...we had such a close relationship and this is really killing me...any advice on how i can handle or rectify this problem please...im lostHelp my mums bf is breaking our family up...very depressed need advice pls?
I went through something really similar last year and me and my mom were really close, best friends even and when she was with this guy he always tried to cause drama and make us fight, it wasn't good I never thought we would be close again...some of the hurtful things that were said, I can't even believe it got to that point...but one day I said I'm not going to let him get to me and I agreed with him and laughed and talked so good to him that he had no reason to start trouble that finally we he tried my mom finally seen what he was doing and she is so happy now with out him...we someone thinks they are in love and has someone to talk to they don't want to really see what the person is really like even though everyone else can see it but you have to hold on and just be patient that one day they will see things clearly.





Good luck stay strongHelp my mums bf is breaking our family up...very depressed need advice pls?
get the mafia on him.
I've been in this same situation many of times if you and your mum are close you need to sit her down and tell her the truth about how you feel and that she can do so much better than this alcoholic bum and that she is a nice women who can have any man she wants she doesn't need to have some guy that treats her like ****.
it sounds like for you and your son you need to get out. your son doesnt deserve to be in that hostile enviroment and neither do you. look out for him and do whats best and get you and your son out first then try talking to your mother.
You are old enough to have a child of your own, why are you living with your mom?where is your dad? Do you have any relatives you can stay with?You really need to get a job and get on your own feet.Also call child protective services if you have any siblings living there so they can put them somewhere where they will be taken care of.
go to the police and/or a domestic violence center. You are experiencing the classic symptoms of domestic violence. Good luck honey! No one deserves that type of treatment and if he is threatening people, that is also illegal. The police need to be made aware. Don't subject your son to his violent outbursts either. Your mom should be protecting her children not him. Unfortunately, that is not the case. Good luck!
i hate to say this, but just move out.....when that man hits her or harms her in any other way and leaves her....she is gonna regret ever letting you or your son go....yeah she is making a horrible choice...that man is horrible and she should be kicking him out instead of you, but i promise she will learn her lesson and regret everything, but if she doesnt then **** her and be there for your son!!!


a mom shouldnt be acting this way!!! its her boyfriend not her husband sooo she needs to kick the bastard out!!!








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Courtney
she doesnt see the harm he is causing her and you.. the whole family. involve the authority. maybe this way she'll realize it. if it keeps happening keep calling the authority. if it doesnt end up sinking in. then YOU leave HER. you can probably make that clear to her. let her know you are not leaving because she kicked you out... tell her you are leaving the abuse her neglect and her change, how its made you feel and what its caused... one day she'll think back on those words.
My advice would be to get your Mum intouch with abuse centers to realize that she is being verbally abused. Secondly, I would gladly leave because I would not want my child around this man and his mood swings.


Good luck to you.