I need help with my family problems, someone give me advice?

My dad went back with his wife after my mother had me so i only see him once a month now! hes my favourite parent. (: i'm wishing to move in with him somewhere in the future! to get to my story~ i really dislike my mother right now! A LOT. a few weeks ago i volunteered after school! after wards i went to the mall with my friends ^^, everything was good but i forgot all about my curfew which is 5 o'clock but ended up coming home at 8:30 x_x she got worried and went all motherly and started calling lots of people i know and all my aunts and uncles , and my sister! asking where i am and asking if i'm dead! when i came home she started yelling at me, i'm really sensitive so i started crying, which made her think i'm on drugs and stuff! - after she talked to my sisters boyfriend who is a doctor, and as a joke said that i do herion{WTF!!!} and now shes acusing me of that , i'm only turning 15 in september and my boyfriend just turned 17 recently..{2 year difference} and because of the age difference she thinks hes a really bad guy but he isn't :\. and shes also acusing me of being pregnant! did i mention, she gets drunk EVERY night and starts yelling at me for no reason which makes me feel really uncomfortable being in my own house o-o but the even worse part she was screaming at herself for no reason on a school night i was trying to sleep so i told her to shut up and she came over to me , grabbed my arm so hard which gave me a big bruse and punched me in the neck area- which also gave me a big bruse... i'm getting tired of her starting sh*t with me and making me want to kill myself! does anyone have advice for me? :\


i have been thinking about moving out with my dad %26gt;%26lt;I need help with my family problems, someone give me advice?
I'm sorry you are hurting so bad. Have you ever thought that maybe your mom is hurting too? It sounds like your mom is just a miserable as you are.


If I am understanding your story it sounds like your dad was married, had an affair with your mother and you were the result. Your dad may have told your mom all kinds of things, and probably none of those were that he never intended on keeping your mom around. Your mom is feeling hurt and used. So she may be drowning her sorrows, hurts and fears in alcohol.


I can tell you from a mothers point of view how absolutely terrifying it is when your children ';forget curfew';. There are too many crazy people out there and too many scary things that happen to girls who think they are old enough to be in control. You can be overpowered by probably any male out there, and your mom knows this. When you are not responsible enough to call and let your mom know where you are, who you are with and what you are doing, then I don't think you are responsible enough to be out.


Don't be mad at your mom because she started calling everyone when you didn't come home. That was your fault! You had her scared out of her mind. Do you know how many kids out there would love having a parent or anyone that cared for them and loved them enough, to worry about their safety? Instead of being mad at you mom you owe her an apology.


You said you are turning 15 in September, that is seven months away. You are fourteen and too young to date a seventeen year old, that's a three year difference. I'm surprised your mom hasn't had him arrested, she could. So I wouldn't give her more of a reason to.


Keep her rules and try and see things through her eyes! I think you both need some serious counseling. Talk to your sister, aunts and uncles and see if they can get you both some help.


You think that all your problems will go away if you move in with your dad. Your dad is no prince or he wouldn't of stepped out on his wife.


Life is hard, and you are making choices that are making it harder. Your mom loves you, why don't you stop looking for faults and love her back. You can't imagine how much you will need your mom someday, so don't throw that relationship away. Start by giving your mom a hug and talking to her about your concerns. Do this when neither of you are angry. You may be surprised at your moms reaction to a little respect and love.I need help with my family problems, someone give me advice?
tell your dad whats going on, he mighttalk to ur mum, then he might relize how your feeling. If you feel you cant do this, then ask your dad if you can move in with him, try getting it sorted soon as your be taking your gcse's soon, and problems like these can cause even more stress. good luck x
This story is not at all good, suggest that you need to get in touch with CHIILDLINE or someone similar, because I do not think that there are many people on Yahoo Answers that can give you the correct answer to your problem
Venting done. Feel better?