Thursday, August 19, 2010

Help.. I need some advice fast-- girl tearing my family apart..?

My parents have this friend who is the sweetest girl and would do anything for anyone. She is quite a bit younger than them but everywhere my parents go there she follows. My parents have grown kids. This lady has no kids , no boyfriend or anything of the sort. The problem is that she is everywhere they are. She follows my dad around and hangs out with him. We all see it as nothing and as someone who just doesn't have many friends but she is constantly following him around and sitting with him while they are out in public. Mom is there too and thinks nothing of it. Just that she is their friend and is welcoming her. The problem is people are starting to talk. They are making comments that they are all together or that dad is with her. please help. How do we let this girl know that this looks bad without destroying her friendship ? It is embarrassing for us kids to hear people talk about our parents this way. The relationship is harmless but it really looks bad.Help.. I need some advice fast-- girl tearing my family apart..?
Ok buddy, you go to this lady and tell her what the hell is she doin, go tell your dad how ya feel, tell him this is not relevent. STRAIGHT UPHelp.. I need some advice fast-- girl tearing my family apart..?
If you know she %26amp; the situation are harmless let them talk.





Make a point of loudly correcting anyone who speaks without knowing the facts. Or better still just agree with their rumours and completely confuse them because you aren't upset %26amp; you ';think it's perfectly normal.';





Play their game, bring it up with your parents %26amp; this woman alltogether %26amp; make it a joke between you all. Soon people will grow bored %26amp; start to talk about someone else.
bring up that you are going to start setting her up on blind dates! that way, theres another man there and not just your dad.

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