I live w my boyfrnd and his family! I need help and advice!!!! Please read the description!?

I live with my boyfriend and his family. When I first moved in, everything seemed so good. My relationship with me and my boyfriend is still good...I'm just having problems with his family. Like I said, when i first moved in everything with them seemed good...but now that a few months have passed its like they are hypocrites. They don't really like seeing anybody happy. They like putting me down for example I am not over weight or anything, I have a belly that i wanna get rid of so every time I try to attempt working out they start calling me fat and that I am never going to loose weight or fat cow it sucks, it gets me mad and that kinda puts me down. Its sometimes really hard living under the same roof with them and what sucks is that I can't really speak up because I just can't. His mother has such bad language and what ver she says is right and its her way or the high way. That is the type of person she is and her son and daughters are the same way.They talk so much smack and its not even true. I go to college and work...and they get bothered because I'm hardly home. And to top it off they say I am a lazy person and I don't even understand because I do all these things. I wake up in the morning clean my room. Make breakfast and pick up the mess I make and take off to work and from work take out to school. I don't get it. I get home at 10 30 pm. Another thing is that they are always asking me where I am going and for them its wrong for me to want to hang out with my best friends once in a while. I really don't know what to do. I feel so attacked by his mom, 18 year old brother, evil 17 year old sister and even his 8 year old little sister. I have done nothing wrong but to be good to these people. I don't know what to do to avoid all this without having to leave. :(I live w my boyfrnd and his family! I need help and advice!!!! Please read the description!?
You are an adult.





If you don't like your living situation, then change it.





Don't like living with the white-trash, then move out.





Live on campus, take out some loans if you have to... but do what you have to do to make life less miserable.





You don't have to live with these people, you are choosing to live with them - if you don't like the deal, then MOVE.





Problem solved.I live w my boyfrnd and his family! I need help and advice!!!! Please read the description!?
Imagine them on your wedding day or them being your father and mother in law. That said, you need to leave him.
Leaving that cursed place is the only way. Move out.
Move out. RUN like hell. It's not worth it. Your being Abused!!
';MISERY LOVES COMPANY';





Sounds like you are being emotional abused and manipulated. You have a lot going for you, and they probably don't. People put each other down just to feel better about themselves becuase they are insecure. Really, what does that say about them? Protect yourself and don't ever be like them. That kind of behavior destorys people and causes people to kill themselves. I know becuase I am a nurse and I see people who commit suicide all the time over abusive families....get on your feet, move out, and stay the heck away.
I don't know why you put yourself in this situation, but it does not sound good for anyone, especially you. Please try to get out of there and find a room of your own. Wouldn't it be better to be with your family or alone than go through this?


They resent you, don't want you there and don't care enough about you to figure out what you are working on. You deserve better, don't you?


I mean in a living situation, not the relationship with your boyfriend, which you hardly mention.
I think you answered your question in the last line: Leave that house. The atmosphere is poisonous, and since it's their house, you can't force them out.





Something else to consider: If everyone in his family treats you so poorly, the prospects for a happy long-term relationship are not good.





Dr. Laura would be asking why you shacked up in the first place...
may god bless your soul





i hate my BF's family so much. its been 5 years I lived with them and hate them...hated them and will hate them in the future.





they are evil people.





just try to not stress your BF out. Its not his fault his family is nuts...dont complain to him about them . It will make him defensive, and hurt your relationship





hurry up and get the hell out of that house though





***PS dont ever help them, stay out of their business. Your business is your BF only NOT THEM they are no one dont worry about them, screw them....
this seems to be a very unhealthy situation, and I don't see it improving any time soon, the best thing i can say is leave. find an apartment, a trailer, a friends house, or even go home (to mom %26amp;dad). you said you were in college, stay in the dorms! hun this isn't healthy, and can cause serious problems. i hope it all works out. if you need to chat IM me its up on my profile.
I know how that is. I lived with my boyfriend's family without him living there. He was living out of town to finish school.





Anyway, what I found to be the most helpful thing when putting up with his family, was telling him about the mistreatment and how my feelings were hurt by what they said or did. If he was any kind of a man with love and care for his woman, he'd confront his family about the situation and protect you as best he could. You should also take a stand for yourself. Make it clear you're not going to put up with them and get your ideas known to them.





You can never avoid these kind of people when living with them.


You have to fight back and protect yourself.


And your boyfriend should help.