Thursday, July 29, 2010

Family matters need comments and advice...?

Scenario:


Teen Child: Is on the phone with one of her peers saying that PARENT 1 is a f------- whore, and many other slams and profane language.





Parent 1: Takes phone out of teen childs hand after a struggle and teen child throws a punch and puts PARENT 1 in a headlock that later finds out,slips a disk. Parent 2 is not aware of this happening, as he is gone fishing. Parent 1 drives to where Parent 2 is fishing and gives him the teen childs phone and heads back out of town, where Parent 1's job has transferred her, but Parent 1 comes home each week on her days off. Parent 2 does not work.





THE NEXT DAY





Parent 1 talks with Parent 2 to verify the teen does not have use of the phone, due to the nature of teen child's conversations goin on previously on the phone. Parent 2 confirms.





THE NEXT DAY





Parent 1 goes online to phone records and finds out that teen child has had the phone the entire time. Parent 1 confronts Parent 2 and Parent 2 states that it is not Parent 1 who suffers when teen child is grounded from phone it is Parent 2. Parent 2 gets caught in a lie that is disrespectful to Parent 1 and shows teen child that Parent 1 doesn't matter. Parent 1 is very upset at all of this, Parent 2 says ';If Parent 1 is goin to continue to bi--h Parent 2 is not going to respond at all to Parent 1. Which Parent 2 does not, Parent 1 gets hung up on and texts ignored from Parent 2.





Advice Please!! Comments Please!!Family matters need comments and advice...?
apparently.... the two parents need to talk more..





don't just hand off child.... without telling what has happened.





you can't just give parent 2 the phone.... and expect him to know that has all transpired......





parent 1 needs counseling..... child needs a rude wake up call..... and parent 2.... needs to be informed more.... so that he can do what needs to get done.Family matters need comments and advice...?
What are you still doing with Parent 2? If Parent 2 doesn't care about the verbal abuse, let's face it many kids do that, but the physical abuse is too far. Get both of them counseling and you get a divorce attorney, before you get seriously injured, whether it be emotionally or physically.
parent 1 (i'm assuming is MOM) and parent 2 (DAD??) need to put the teen in check. and dad needs to quit disrespecting mom in front of the kids. i personally would want to crack both of their heads together.

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