Saturday, July 31, 2010

Family problems please help and advice.?

i am really worried about my best friend's situation. She is really worried and she gets sad with all the things happening into her house. Her dad acts weird and he seems that he does not love her mom anymore. Her mom is trying to feel good having time with her daughter. She got enclosed to herself. I remember her having friends being concerned to groups like the parents school group :S and know nothing. She is sad because she has no friends. Nothing and she does not make any move to meet people because she says she is old. [ almost 47 i think ] .


:s what should we advice her to do..please help.Family problems please help and advice.?
x_rina,


Your friend is lucky to have someone like you, your breed is rare. Now the very first thing that you and your friend need to do is to pray together and accept in your prayer that something wonderful thing will comes out after this storm in your friends family is gone. Next, try to be a good listener because your friend family is on the edge of breaking up. Give all the support to your friend and always be there when she needed you. I don't know what is the relationship of your friend and her dad. If she can still talk to him, tell her to talk to her dad and open up what she is feeling as of this moment and is afraid of. Let your friend have some private time with her dad, and ask him all the things like, does he still love her mom? or other things such as why it seems that you and mom not as sweet as before? or


Is there a way that they can still patch up? I really don't know what questions she want toa sk her dad, but pray first before doing this and let God speak for her. Next let her talk to her mom, and do the same. Is she can't do it. tell her just try to write a letter for both of her parents. Espressing how she feels, and telling them how much she wants to grow with a loving and caring family. If she want some guidance on how to write this letter., email me at ronnievicn@yahoo.com, and tell me what happy memories she had with her mom and dad while they are still together. If she know the facts on how her parents met, add it up. then I'll do the letter and one day, she needs to wake up early and leave the letter where her dad and mom could see it. Tell her that my heart is for her, and I will always pray for her and her family. God Bless, keep in touch.

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