Family problems i need good advice?

So my brother is 19 on drugs and jobless and overall a discusting person.I really wish he would just leave. I dont speak to him or even acknowledge him anymore.Right now at this moment my brother is cussing my mother out and im ready to go off on his a*s. I don't care how mad i am at my mom i never cuss her or disrespect in anyway her im ready to put my 2 cents in. Should i stay quite or say something?Family problems i need good advice?
be careful he might go off on you too... talk to a counseler or get help or SOMETHING. you will regret it if you dont and he does something terrible to you or your mother. but something needs to be done.


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Definitely say something you are family you have a right. Don't add fuel to the fire. Maybe talk to your mother first and tell her how you feel and see what happens. Maybe you guys could do a intervention with your brother. Fighting will only make matters worse. I know you want to defend your mother, but it might set your brother off, depending on the drugs he is taking. Maybe your mother will put him out or tell him to go get help if she knows that it is effecting you.
thats pretty harsh..that kind of reminds me of my little brother who is 11 and yells at my mom and stuff like that so i yell at him and he cant really do anything about it....but if thats your 19 year old brother, y ou have to handle it in a more mature manner by thinking about what to say, sit him down, and make it a really deep conversation and make what youre gonna say really deep to show him that its really hurting you and your mom and he needs to go out and get a job and give him some motivation and say come on you can do it.go out!and get a job!ill be so proud of you as my brother...you know stuff like that
Talk to your mom alone and let her know you think your brother should leave. Put your 2 cents in but do it in a calm environment when it's just you and your mom (because really her opinion is the only one that matters). Don't do it in a heated environment when your mom and brother are in a fight. Good Luck :D








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tell some one it wont hurt


if you tell someone you could help your brother wich will help your whole family.....my friend went through this and tould her school ...your brother wont like you at the beging but later one hell thank you cause you probly saved his life
No matter what you do, something will end up happening at that rate. But, i would suggest go ahead and put your 2 cents in. It will make things worse, but in the end it will get better for you.
i would talk to him..not cuss him out. violence never solves the problem unless your gonna beat the crap outta him. think about what to say... make it deep. and tell him.
say something and he don't even need to be cussing ur mom out or taking drug say something to ur mom ask her if she can kick him out or ask her if u can kick him out
say something. tell him to leave. if he won't act right, then tell him he needs to find someplace else to go; you all don't want to live with that stress.
Tell your brother to stop, get a job and just leave he/you alone (I wouldn't suggest this if he is violent) but say what you want to say, its a free country
call them a very bad name! it hurts and will make it all better =)
Violence never helps...but you definitely need to say something. You should tell him what a loser he is and that he is!