I need serious advice! It's a family problem!?

My cousin, she's 12, she has a myspace and her mom doesn't know. I think it's ok that she has one, but the problem is that the other day she told me that she wanted me to let her borrow my camera. She said that a guy she really likes wants to see a picture of her with a bikini. I of course said HELL NO! I told her that she was crazy! and she said that it was only for the guy to see. I think she's gonna do it anyway, so I don't know if I should tell her mom. I mean she's my cousin and I don't want her to do that! ohh and her mom is kind of special! She thinks I'm a bad influence sorta! but she has no idea how her daughter is! and I'm afraid that if I tell her she might think I'm lying! What should I do?I need serious advice! It's a family problem!?
I think your cousin is making a dangerous mistake. The man could be a sexual predator. You confronted your cousin, now tell her mother regardless of what she thinks. If she doesn't listen, you could call the police who may arrest this man. It's a reality. You can keep your cousin and other little girls safe. Good luck.I need serious advice! It's a family problem!?
tell her mom
ok ok


Tell your cousin to not do it and make her promise cause your cool with her(her friend)


try to see if she really is telling a promise or a lie, if you think shes lying show her some stu ff thats really bad for doing what she is doing


if she refuses you just gotta tell her mom!
just try to stop her cause if its a perv or something u noe older guy but if u tell her mom well the probelm is that she probaly be in **** load of trouble thats my advice check who guys is
This is serious and dangerous. You better tell her mom. I'm sure she would think that your not lieing in a situation like this. Even if your cousin gets mad at you, its for her safety you have to tell her that.
Get someone she trusts to tell her mom. She should be told, because if you don't, you would rally feel bad going to her services and you could have stopped it and didn't. You wouldn't be able to sleep.
Hi,


In this kind of situation u should tell to her mom because she's on the wrong path.First u remind her that she is not doing the right thing but still if she doesn't listen to u then u should surely tell to her mom.Even if her mom thinks bad about u,don't worry,u r going to do the right thing if u tell to her mom.Remember the words of Gandhiji...';Go on the right path and always speak the truth';...
Tell her parents NOW! A young girl recently hung herself after developing a friendship with what she thought was a teenage boy. In reality, it was the mother of a neighbor girl wanting to find out if the other girl was talking about her child. This mother said some very mean things (as the boy) to this child (who suffered from low self-esteem and depression).





You really never know who's on the other end of the internet. No one should ask a 12 year old girl for a picture of her in a bikini. Probably a predator. Tell her parents. You might just save her life.
she's still a minor!





good job for not letting her borrow your camera. i wouldn't worry about the mom thinking you're lying. if you let the mom know, you've done all you really can do, and it's in her court. if this is a guy she met online, i would be worried. if it isn't, tell her he can see her over the summer. i'm sure someone will be having a pool party.





but that sounds really suspicious. she'll probably hate you for a while, but it might be worth letting her mom know. you hear all those bad stories... and well, it's just better to be safe than sorry.
Show the mother the account...Seeing is believing...
time to tell and don't worry about saving your a**.
Tell her mom. Your cousin is getting into things that will only lead to much much worse things. This needs to be nipped in the bud...





...but be understanding. Maybe warn your cousin first...
Have you thought about telling her mother indirectly? You can have you mom or someone else tell her. I would let someone know though.
mabe you can tell ur mom or dad or other family member to tell her mom good luck!
12 yrs old is way too young to be on My Space, If you dont want to tell on her, find her page and report it as an under age account
u should advice her n tell the disadvantage..if she didn't want to ..better tell her mom..she will understand n maybe her mom will change ure cousin mind..
you should do what you feel is right. If your cuzin is going to take that picture and you think its not safe for her to do that then tell her mom...its better that somoone if mad at you then putting your cuzins reputation or possibly life on the line.





good luck...i hope she doens't post her pic that can seriously mess up her reputation.
let her mom find out on her own just tell her mom she has my space and you don't want her to get hurt by meeting the wrong persons on the Internet.because you care what happened to your cousin
Take your cousins mom to the comp and show her that she has one. Then tell her what her daughter asked for and why. If she doesn't believe you then there isn't much you can do I'm afraid.
I commend you for seeking help on behalf of your cousin.





Find an adult in your family, or a teacher or school counselors and tell them about this. It is the right thing to do. Your cousin is lucky to have you looking out for her.
Please tell her Mom..Your cousin does not need to start that. If she is not responsible enough to know what to or what not to do on myspace she is not ready to be on there....
Tell on her, would you rather find her dead on the side of the road someday? She could give out to much info to the wrong person. Plus they could find her easier with her picture. I think telling is your best bet. Its just not a safe world anymore.
That's quite a tough situation you got there. Even if she might not believe you I think you should tell your aunt about it.


If that doesn't work and she doesn't believe you then tell your mom or dad to talk to your aunt about it.


This is a bad situation for your cousin to be in and your such a nice guy for caring about her. Good job!
You need to tell the mom. Show her the myspace page. As for the pic, it sounds like the request is from a pedophile. Be careful and Good Luck!
You should totally tell her mom, she is frickin' 12 years old and has no reason to be sending pics of herself to ANYONE!
Tell your cousin it would be a stupid thing...to send a stranger her picture in a bikini. Tell her she's asking for some serious trouble %26amp; you don't want to see that happen. It's okay to let someone know that you care about them. And also tell her if she does this that you are going to let her Mom know about it. Be up front about everything that you think might harm your cousin.


Doesn't matter what the Mom thinks about you it would be worth telling if it keeps your cousin away from some creep.


Good Luck, I wish you well.
You need to talk to your cousin about sexual predators. She is twelve she shouldnt even be talking to guys like that on myspace...especially ones that want to see her in bikini! tell her to trust you. Maybe take a picture of you and her together just ya know at family christmas party then tell her she can put that on her myspace. I would also look her comment and stuff and see who this man is. If she goes ahead and doesnt listen, yes tell her mother.
Safety first. You have to tell either your parents, her parents, or another trusted adult. I know you don't want to get your cousin in trouble, but in reality, you'd be bailing her out! Good luck!
I'm not real sure how to put a picture on My Space just for 1 guy to see.Explain to her that that is one of the rules of My Space is that you don't do stupid stuff like that.
i would tell her mom..... and if her mom doesnt believe you, then show her. good luck
discuss it with a shrink