Need some advice to save my family please help?

Me and my wife have been married for 2 years now (been with each other for about a year prior) and we have had some rough spots where she says ';she is not happy'; we have worked past these spots before but now there is a whole new issue first there isn't that ';spark'; and there really isn't much passions left i have tried everything i can think of i got a job, became respectful to everyone other than just her and our kids (2 kids one girl one boy) and now she is saying she thinks we were not ready to get married and she wants to be single cuz she never had a time she was single this is killing me for multiple reasons


1. i am completely and absolutely in love with her i mean i don't know where the hell id go from here if the unmentionable happened.


2. our kids would have to suffer trough having mom and dad split and i def don't want them to go trough such a terrible thing





please anyone help give me some suggestions or advice it would mean the world... and maybe my marriageNeed some advice to save my family please help?
Well, I'll try to help you. If there isn't the ';spark'; anymore, try recreating the ';spark';. Put the kids at a babysitters or over at Grandma and Grandpas for the night and take her out somewhere fancy, or somewhere that has sentimental value to her. (For example: Maybe the place where you proposed?) Maybe even to a site where you can overlook the beautiful mountains, the ocean, etc. And then just discuss the problems, and ask her what you can do to try to resolve this. Don't get into an argument, just discuss it. If she raises her voice, she gently hug/kiss her to calm her down. Remind her how much you love her. If you haven't told her in a while, say it here and there. Just randomly come up to her, kiss her, and say, ';I love you.'; That would be sweet.


I hope that helps! I'm not one who's gone to through this before, but I really hope it works out for you and that this helps.Need some advice to save my family please help?
Dude sorry to tell you but your lady is cheating on you. When a a girls starts saying chit like that is cause she wants to be a hoodrat best thing you can do is find another lady and as for the kids try to work something out so they dont get hurt... Good Luck
try a date night, put the kids at a baby sitters,make a candle light dinner, and romance her like you were dating all over, try a new sex position, just stir things up it is easy to fall into a rut!
Tell her your going to try to bring back the spark. do nice things for her even little things help. try having passionate sex not like the naughty way that most people think but like real love bewteen two people. sex might work usually
Well, there's not much you can do to change her mind. And I do feel sorry for you. You could try talking things out with her.
Use your tongue.
sounds like you screwed.
well maybe she just needs some time apart...not a brake up bt give eachother space. let her go ou with the girls and u go out wih the guys or stay at home with thee kids. i hope it doesn't end up in a brakeup but if it does just give her a lil time and maybe her sence will click in and she will reaslize how happy she was when she was with you...when she had a family...she will realize how much she really does love you


Hope it all works out for yo...hope i could help
She wants to be single ? Bull Shiiit , she is a MOM now ,


She should have thought about that Before she started popping out babies .





If she wants out , tell her to get job because You are going for full custody and filing for child support from her .





And she can do jai time for failing to pay child support .





It is very unfortunate that she married you when you had no job


And when you were Not respectful but she did it and to be a


Fkkkkkkkknnnn Flake now is lame .





FYI: NO yelling , just spell it out in a calm voice or see an attorney about custody and moving her buttt out .





Do NOT fight / argue in front of the kids and if she does ,


Tell her thanks for assisting in Your win for custody .





Hopefully the prospect of getting a job and paying child support will aid her in getting her head on straight .





Somehow , it does Not sound like any kissing assss will work this time unless you are omitting major details .





good luck





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I'm so sorry you're going through this! My cousin's wife has done this exact thing to him before. They were very, very young when they got together and started having children, also 1 boy and 1 girl. She left and gave him the kids, who had a very rough time with it. It sounds like you love her a great deal and I know you don't want your family torn apart, but there is an old saying: If you love someone, set them free. If it is meant to be, they will come back. My cousin's wife came back after some time apart and right now they're better than ever. The kids are happy again. Talk to her and try to get her to agree to some marriage counseling very soon. Or talk to your priest or preacher. I hope you can work things out!