Need you advice? anyone? cuz my family seems to not care about me anymore ugh?

so there this girl thats part of the group of friends that i have in my old school and whats going on right now is that she doesnt want me part of the group and keeps like spreading rumors about me in the group and im starting to get really ticked off but the thing is that ppl in the group really dont like fights so i cant say anything to her while im with the group or else im kicked out so i dont know what to do and everything its just stressing me out right now and like shes trying to kick me outta the group and everyone else doesnt seem to mind me its just her so yeah


:( can anyone give advice?Need you advice? anyone? cuz my family seems to not care about me anymore ugh?
who cares if you get kicked out


their probably annoying anyway %26gt;:(Need you advice? anyone? cuz my family seems to not care about me anymore ugh?
Okay so the girl that doesn't like you is a jerk. She's obviously insecure and sees you as a threat. She thinks that if you stay a part of the group you will take the friends away from her. So, what you need to do is talk to your friends and tell them what she is doing to you. Be nice, don't try to start a fight, just say like, ';I don't want to start a fight, but i think we need to talk'; and explain exactly how you feel. If they are truly your friends, they will realize what they are doing and fix the problem. Hope i helped :)
u no u seem like a nice person n these frends of urs sound very immature having like a group if 1 shuts u out they al do thts awful there obv nt ur real friends stand up 2 wt u think is ryt n if they kik u out the group then atleast u no ur better person than her n if the ova ppl in the group r stil frends wiv u n nothink changes cuz of this then who cares bout tht grl shes jsst jelous jst act like it doesnt bother u
F-u-c-k the group! If she's going to be a little biiitch and spread crap about you, while the rest of the group sit around and let it happen, then you shouldn't want to be in a group like that. Go make some REAL friends.
Talk to her directly when you are not in the group. Tell her straight up what's going on and why is she saying those things. To stop saying b.s. or you will take some action against her. Come on you shouldn't be scared.
talk to her about it


talk to the group about it


if they say that you are being mean then that is weird because you are just trying to see why she is saying those things.
Leave ';the group'; and find ';true friends'; that's a group. Your special forget that evil gossipy harpy.
trust me 5 years from now your group wont even matter and i bet half of them still wont even be friends.......who cares dont let it get to you..your better than that.....start your own group or have a talk with her.
dnt let it bother you. do things to get everyone elses attention. become a person who every one wants to be around, but be yourself. just with improvements
sorry im stuck talk to ur mom or if you have any older sibling or cousins





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dode just ****** skick there *** by:


making your oun grope of tough kids to back you up.


thats what i would do.
Find a different group.
tell everyone about how bad she is
nope.
kill her
pick a new set of friends
oh gosh, life is over as we know it
Hi,


If these people are really your friends won`t they know what is true about you from what is a rumor?


I do not think you or anyone for that matter should resort to fighting to resolve things like rumors.


Once you know to yourself that what she is saying is not true, you should brush it off, yes I know it will hurt. I`ve been there and as I used to say ';As long as I know that it is not true and the Lord knows its not true, then the truth will come out.';


This may or may not work for you, but think about it if you confront her and you get kicked out of the group, she wins.


Did you consider that maybe the others are not making a big deal about it because they know that those things are not true about you ?


I don`t know if you believe in God but I`d say to pray about it.


People can only stress you if you let them, don`t show her that she`s getting to you.,it may just be what she`s feeding off of.


Be Strong.
just bring the problem into the circle, and that bs, about the no fighting thing, cuz sooner or later their going to believe the rumors seeing that, that girl tends to do so. So confront her about it, and say i now your spreading rumors about me and personally i feel as if you want me out if this group. I on;y want the truth o why you are doing these things to m,e, cuz your really stressing me out! and she really can't deny that she has been doing nothing wrong. and just say to your group that your not trying to pick a fight, our trying to resolve a problem.


good luck!